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METAFORIX MAIL


Volume 1, Issue 45 June 22, 2001

Sites and insights for the Information Age

Happy Summer and thanks for reading!

CONTENTS AT A GLANCE:

ON MY MIND: Boundaries
INFORMATICON: Hoaxes in Cyberspace
MEDIA: Human Billboards
METAFORIX MAIL ARCHIVES
WANTED: YOUR OPINIONS!


ON MY MIND
[From the Editor]

My friend Ilise Benun and I have been having an occasional online discussion about technology. We started talking about cell phones, and the next thing we knew, we were on to imagination, trust, privacy, and boundaries.

From there, Ilise began thinking about the "impulsiveness associated with talking on a cell phone," the danger of making what could be a significant decision without giving it your full attention. As she points out, a cell phone often rings while its owner is in the midst of doing something else. A multitasking talker presented with an "urgent" request may decide in haste and repent at leisure.

As you may recall, Ilise has so far resisted the pressure to join the ranks of cell phone owners, while I've had several over a period of years and don't leave home without one. But, unlike most cell phone users I know, I very rarely leave my cell phone on unless I'm actually expecting a call.

Maybe this habit stems from the old days, when airtime was so expensive that no one wanted to risk paying for a junk call or a wrong number. Maybe it's a vestige of that ancient time when people first began to have car phones. (I remember telling someone then that having a phone in the car seemed to me like having a phone in the shower, and I didn't think I wanted one, thank you.) Maybe it's the flip side of my absolute compulsion to answer the phone at home, a kind of illusion of inaccessibility on demand on the road. I really don't want my cell phone to ring unless I have a good idea who will be on the other end.

So I'm not quite sure how resonant I find the idea of impulsiveness. If there's an "i word" here, I'd say it's "improvisation." For me, cell phone behavior has a more theatrical quality about it, both in the sense of performing for an audience and the psychological sense of "acting out."

Let's put aside what seems to be the natural tendency to adopt a telephone voice that is louder and more distinct than the normal conversational tone. Let's also recognize that a significant percentage of cell phone calls are not genuinely necessary. I mean the calls that fall into the category of "The-plane-just-landed-I'm-getting-off-I'll-phone-you-when-I-reach-the-baggage-claim-area-Bye."

I refer to these calls as "conspicuous communication." One of their primary purposes, if not their only purpose, is to focus attention on certain attributes of the speaker within your hearing range: How cool (usually) his teeny tiny phone, how huge the deal he's about to close, how expensive his summer house, how hard to get reservations at the restaurant he'll be eating at tonight, how hot he is as a sexual partner. Like the most loquacious visitor in an online chat room, the conspicuous cell phone communicator virtually dares you not to pay attention to him.

Sort of like a gifted actor. Or a little kid having a tantrum.

I still think cell phones are cool toys. But I'm glad we've collectively begun to establish to boundaries of the playground and the rules of the game.

Cordially,

Lois C. Ambash, Editor
editor@metaforix.com

 


INFORMATICON
[a provocative quote, statistic, or piece of data]

"Debating Reality: An Online Hoax Is Not a Pox
Some quotes from an essay by Theresa M. Senft The New York Times, 6/14/01

"For more than a year, thousands of people had been reading the Web diary of Kaycee Nicole Swenson, a young woman from Kansas who was fighting leukemia. Many of these people also had had online conversations with Kaycee, had talked to her on the phone and had seen pictures of her posted on the Web. Last month, Kaycee's mother announced that her daughter had unexpectedly died of an aneurysm. . . .

"In the following days, however, it was determined that Kaycee's Web logs, photos, phone calls to friends - all the things that had so absorbed a large online community - were part of a two-year hoax. . . .

"It's understandable that some Web dwellers, once burned by the Kaycee hoax, might [demand that Web users prove their identity]. But there is a problem with this demand for verification, one that gets at the heart of how life is lived on the Internet: for many people who cannot or do not wish to be seen by others, the online world is a place to thrive in relative safety. . . . Is it reasonable to ask people who are already suffering or at risk to compromise their safety or privacy, merely because we are afraid of being tricked?

"We may never be able to say for certain who or what is real on the Web just as we can't in everyday life. It's important to remember that there will always be those on the Web who are genuinely isolated, alone, forgotten and trying to make contact. As part of our social contract, these people need to be tended to - not interrogated - in spite of our fears of being tricked again: their acceptance is more than worth the occasional hoax. They are real and so are their predicaments, no matter how many frauds may occur in the future."


MEDIA
[a recent news article, feature, or opinion piece]

"Chris & Luke: The First Corporately Sponsored College Students!"

Last fall, we published a column about two enterprising high school students, Chris Barrett and Luke McCabe, of Haddonfield High School in New Jersey. In August, at the start of their senior year, the two launched a hokey, sophomoric web site, ChrisAndLuke.com!, with the goal of obtaining corporate sponsorship for their college education.

Chris and Luke's offer to be the corporate "spokesguys" for any legitimate product except tobacco or alcohol in exchange for full college tuition garnered media coverage to die for over the entire school year. The site, definitely cute but seriouly in need of editing, chronicled their college visits and other adventures. By their count, Chris and Luke were seriously courted by fifteen potential sponsors.

Last week, the big announcement: First USA Bank will sponsor Chris at Pepperdine University and Luke at the University of Southern California. In First USA's version of this "history-making deal," Chris and Luke are "student ambassadors," rather than "spokesguys," and there isn't a single exclamation point. And, as we pointed out last fall, there's not a parent or a teacher in sight.


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WANTED: YOUR OPINIONS!

Guest Columnists and Interviewees Wanted!

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Guest columns are welcome. Contributions are subject to editing for length and clarity.

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